You allow, you invite the lesson, you sit in silence as life takes its course, you give up the illusion of control, you do the next thing that arises. You stop pointing fingers, you think, you look within………….and yet nothing gives.
Some things seemed created for the purpose of being intensely worrisome, yet they are not deadly enough to put you out of here.
Some problems push the buttons of hopeless feelings; they leave you staring up at a impassable cliff while you physically feel yourself sinking into quicksand.
Don’t we all have problems like this? The kind for which you cannot find the key to unlock to save your life.
These challenges seem the very things that force us to step into a conversation with the mystery. There is no where else to go.
Remembering that every problem is spiritual in nature, always, all ways, is not always what I want to hear, but until I remember this, I am stuck.
Excerpted from Depak Chopra’s book Spiritual Solutions: Answers to Life’s Greatest Challenges
“Spirituality begins with a decisive answer… It says that life isn’t random. There is pattern and purpose inside every existence. The reason that challenges arise is simple: to make you more aware of your inner purpose.
Problems are mirrors: some are showing me where I’ve forgotten you and me are the same. My student who drove me up the wall, in the end, was an expression of me. We finished our dance, and she taught me where I still saw us as two. Firmness or softness in reaction to her became a non-issue, laughing or soothing, feeding or withholding, all these dualities and everything in between all flowing clearly without seeing difference in the end, because in that one tiny mirror, I see what is what. She is me.
The answer to my health, the answer to my relationships, the answer to my work, my house, my flow: one. I am one with my body, all other people, all objects, all nature, my space, my moments, my unfolding life – all me.
I think it is not just love your neighbor as yourself, but love your neighbor – she is you. Love every thing; everything is me. (Am I one upping Jesus? God, how ridiculous am I?:)